Remember why you love me 

Remember when you used to look at me like I was the only person in the world? Don’t forget that. Remember when you decided you wanted me forever? Remember it.  Remember when you chose me as the woman to have a baby with, remember why you chose me.  It’s so easy for us to be … [Read more…]

They’re okay. 

Between exhaustion and stresses of life it is sometimes hard to take a little look around you and see your children in all their perfection.  We are so busy being exhausted and so busy being stressed sometimes there is no time to see passed being a mother and them as a  child. Time is filled … [Read more…]

Dear diary, 

I went to try on a dress over the weekend for an event. I gathered as many dresses as I could so I wouldn’t have that disappointing feeling of walking away with nothing that results in me feeling shit with myself. I got the biggest sizes I could so it would feel nicer to go … [Read more…]

It’s okay to be a bad mother

Not all of us are natural mothers.  There are some of us who find it exhausting, overwhelming, boring, hard, hating it…wonder if we have made a mistake… We won’t say it out loud because we don’t want to be judged or seem like we love our children any less than we do.  For me, it … [Read more…]

Mummy needs Prozac 

If I told you I was having a bad day, and Option A (left) was how I was coping. You’d applaud me. It would be funny, it would be considered normal. “Mummy needs wine”… they make memes about it. I am encouraged. Never mind I use it to cope, never mind that I felt sad … [Read more…]

Going out with kids 

I was brave enough to venture out to meet a friend and her husband at a rib and burger place last week.  I don’t like to go anywhere as a single parent where there is food and people with my children, because it usually leads to an anxiety disaster.  Rest assured folks, this afternoon delivered.  … [Read more…]